Let’s hook up?

Okay, now maybe I should be flattered to know someone finds me attracted enough to want to sleep with me. But personally my first reaction to being asked that question would be me wanting to sock that guy in the face. And well that is just me. But who the hell does that?!

Honestly, I don’t understand people that say hook ups are fun. Maybe it is the fact that I was abused and sex to me is something that is between two people that love and respect each other. Trust me, when I was single I had almost allowed it to happen but I am so glad I didn’t let it go all the way. My mind kept telling me I am okay, but really I was lying to myself and I began to feel like a fucking toy and I am no one to be played with like that.

Like wtf happened to respecting yourself? I understand that society has manipulated us to believe that hook ups don’t mean anything, but you are human. That form of connection doesn’t just come and go. We become part of each other lives - even when we think its nothing more than sex.